Hair is weird and confusing for everyone, especially for women with curls. As a curly-haired beauty editor, I understand this on a deep, personal level. To be clear, people with curly hair don’t hate their hair; we just hate the endless search for the right products and the right methods. Allow me to help: After decades of testing approximately 10,000 products and trying out hundreds of ways to make my hair look and feel good, I’ve amassed a number of solutions that actually work. With that in mind, here are the eight things you need to take care of curly hair.
A pre-poo is a hydrating product applied to dry hair ahead of shampooing. Coconut oil is a classic pre-poo and my favorite to recommend because it’s just so cheap. I typically comb a few dollops of the oil through my hair, avoiding my scalp. When it’s time to shower, I wet my hair and then rigorously shampoo my roots. As the shampoo runs down the hair shaft, the coconut oil protects the hair, keeping it from losing any moisture. Then I’ll rinse a second time, without shampoo, to get the oil out.
You can pre-poo any time from 15 minutes before a shower to the night before. is possibly the most famous pre-poo because it was created specifically for Audrey Hepburn. As you might imagine, it’s better suited for loose curls that only experience mild dryness. Philip Kingsley’s is hardier and more my speed. More recently, I’ve tapped into as a pre-poo. The gel-to-oil salve is moisturizing, yet extremely lightweight. What’s more, it doesn’t stain pillow covers as it works it way through hair overnight.
I shampoo once or twice a month when I wear my hair curly. People with straight hair can’t wrap their minds around this because straight hair creates so much oil. Curls, on the other hand, absorb oil — it’s the juice that allows them to grow.
So instead of shampooing, every two or three days I co-wash — wash with just conditioner. You can use just about any conditioner, provided it doesn’t have too much drying silicone. Nikki Walton of the blog Curly Nikki raves about the from “natural” hair-care brand Aubrey. (I also like their because it smells so good.) is a little heavy on the silicone, but the formula has human keratin, which is super reparative.
For those occasions when you simply must shampoo, Virtue’s is good because it cleans without robbing hair of moisture. When I’m not using that, I prefer the silky, non-drying shampoo from.
3. Deep conditioner
If you want bouncy curls, you’re going to have to spend a lot of time in the shower. Once every week or two, I coat my hair in a deep conditioner or a mask to add yet more moisture. Most masks instruct you to baste in the conditioner for five to ten minutes, but I need at least two hours to see any noticeable improvement in shine and softness, so I pull my mask-coated hair into a bun, cover my pillow with a towel, and go to sleep. After rinsing in the morning, my hair feels like a baby’s.
The big drawback with deep conditioners and masks is that the good ones are always expensive. The absolute best is made by and costs $145. mask is $63 — still not cheap, but better, and it restores softness after a damaging blowout. Or, for the same price, you could try ,whichmakes hair smell like perfume for days.
4. Curl creams
Smoothing moisturizer over dripping-wet hair in the shower reduces frizz and helps my curls stay bouncy and intact. I’m drawn to a DevaCurl’s because it’s lightweight and smells like food. On the cheaper end, there’s , which is slightly heavier and best for thicker, more tightly coiled curls; and if we’re strolling down memory lane, Shea Moisture’s , whose moisturizing prowess sits somewhere in between DevaCurl’s and Cantu’s, was the first curl cream I grew to love. No matter the brand, the cream is always dispersed throughout my hair with my wide-tooth . Reader, I’m assuming you too have curly hair, so I don’t need to wax poetic about the joys of a wide-tooth comb. Once on vacation I had to use a friend’s regular-tooth comb and I’m fairly certain I nearly went bald.
While curl creams moisturize, gels protect — think of them as a sealant that reduces moisture loss and allows curls to keep their shape. The trick is to apply no more than a quarter-size amount of the stuff right after you’ve moisturized. There are only two gels that strike the perfect balance of weightlessness and hold — Alterna’s and DevaCurl’s . Neither feel crunchy or crumble into gross white flakes.
5. A good drying method
A bath towel is for your body. A microfiber towel is for your hair. A bath towel is constructed with thousands of threads that rough up your hair. A microfiber towel is gentler and exerts less friction — and less friction means less frizz. The best microfiber towel is the turban-style version from . It’s shaped like a giant, stretched-out shower cap, with a button-and-hook closure to keep it in place. If you’d rather not cough up $30 for Aquis, use an old T-shirt to dry your hair instead. Or a sweater. Anything is better than a bath towel.
I usually wrap my hair with my Aquis towel for a few minutes, and then let my hair air dry while I commute. Sometimes air drying isn’t an option, though, which is when a diffuser comes in handy. (If your apartment is larger than mine, you could invest in a like they use at New York curl mecca Devachan).
Which diffuser? The from Conair and are clunky and slip from the hair dryer’s nozzle too easily; the diffusers hawked by , , and are perfect, save for the fact you need to own a Dyson, T3, or GHD blow dryer as well. Fashion folks rave about because of its backstage street cred, but it dramatically increases drying time. The best option, in my mind, is by . It looks dopey, but it’s all one piece — no cumbersome attachments — and it’s only $35. I blow that gizmo next to large sections of my hair for about 20 minutes, total. Then I grab my standard hair dryer, flip my hair upside-down, and blast the nozzle at my roots for a few minutes for extra volume and bounce.
6. A silk pillowcase
I know a silk pillowcase sounds like a meaningless extravagance, but the smooth, flat fibers of the silk (much like the smooth fibers of a microfiber towel) reduce friction while you sleep, preventing breakage and frizz. You’ll notice a difference after just one night.
My first silk pillowcase was a ,and I loved it like one might love a Big Mac before experiencing a Shack Burger. The Shack Burger in this metaphor is the soft pillowcase made by . (Just know that the caramel, pink, and white options assume a yellow cast after a few weeks of use.)
On the subject of sleeping, I’ve grown to appreciate the “pineapple.” The pineapple is a hairstyle that prolongs the life of your curls. It’s simple: You take a loose scrunchie and gather your hair as close to your forehead as possible to minimize curl-squishing. Some people wrap their hair in a scarf after this, but I don’t — because of my bougie silk pillow.
7. A humidifier
On the second or third day after co-washing, you’re going to want to revive your curls with some humidity. That’s easy enough in the summer, but in the winter, you’ll need some help. You could hang out next to a steaming shower for 20 minutes, or you could buy a humidifier.
Some humidifiers only mist a tiny portion of the room, but the covers a wide space and looks cool doing it. is a nice, cheaper option. When winter arrives in New York, I crank my humidifier up to the highest level and let my curls soak in the moisture. After 30 minutes or so, my hair looks bouncy and lively again.
Before I became a beauty editor with access to every curl product and wizard in the western hemisphere, YouTube was my sourcebook. It still is. I watch , , , and with reckless abandon. YouTube will teach you the art of the , the incandescent joy of the heatless , and why are a force of nature. Any curl question can be answered on YouTube, and isn’t that a beautiful thing?
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