You seem to want to get swept away in a fantasy without ever having to show up.
Why we couldn’t look away from Brandon Truaxe’s social-media collapse.
A lot of people — women in particular — feel unbelievably accountable to others.
No no no no.
Brett Kavanaugh barely even had to try.
It’s understandable to want to know what others think of you, but at some point you have to recognize that you’re gathering information you can’t use.
You don’t deserve to get hurt, over and over again.
“My accusers won’t even acknowledge me or check up on me, to see if I’m okay.”
It’s crucial to recognize that the work IS the end, not a means to an end.
Just keep working, advises Lisa Hanawalt, who turned her freakiest passions into a thriving TV career.
When the stakes are high, trying to navigate your current, disappointing reality is the most terrifying thing of all.
Your old ways of doing things won’t work anymore.
It’s harder to finish creative work when you view it as a means to an end.
I can tell that you believe in yourself. But do you believe in love?
Start by grounding yourself in reality.
You both seem to like having someone to blame when things go wrong.
The way you’re thinking about your pain and loss is making it harder for you to live.
It takes a long time to learn how to feel your emotions without identifying criminals.
You have no connection to your success because you don’t know why you do what you do.
You have to accept that other people have different priorities, values, and rules from yours.
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